Avoid these things while you're in a fight with your boyfriend
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Last updated on - Mar 27, 2019, 15:30 IST01/5Fight with your boyfriend, but avoid these things while you're at it
Fighting is as important as expressing love is when you're in a relationship. We kid you not, it really is. So don't expect us to say things like "avoid talking" or "avoid fight altogether" in order to have a peaceful relationship. No. That's not how you do it. When you fight, you get to know each other's negative emotions too, like anger, aggression, dislike, etc. etc. But there are limitations that you need to maintain while you and your boyfriend are at it. And no matter what, avoid involving these things because it'll all only make it worse for you both.
02/5Don't include other people
This is the worst way to have a fight. The relationship is between you two and so is the fight. Including other people in the topic or the arguement will only make it all go down the drain.
03/5Don't threaten with a break up
Just because you are too annoyed and don't have a comeback to make after a point, including "let's break up" is only going to increase the distance between you two and make the fight uglier. Because separating is not a solution to tackle with a fight which won't matter to you both in a couple of hours.
04/5Don't deviate from the topic
The fight should only be about the thing that is bothering you two in the moment, not about what he did and what she did a month back or a year back. That'll only increase the fight instead of ending it and there will be no end to it.
05/5Don't turn deaf ears to their part of the argument
You're both equally involved in the fight. And while get your chance to speak it all out, so should the other person. Fights where only one person is speaking and giving no chance for them to speak their part is not fair at all. Let the two of you get equal chances to speak and bring a solution to the fight soon. That's how it works.